Originally Posted By: are you kidding
Read briefly,absorbed no. You've seen me type,to I strike you as someone with patience.


As a matter of fact....

Look. I'm not here to evaluate you. I am here because you are asking for help.

Patience? You better find some.

Are these things some of the things that have plagued the marriage ?

BND is spot on.....you need to learn to relax and breathe.

People are posting to you to help you.

Concentrate your thoughts and stop spinning, answers will come in time for you....