It progressed so badly so quickly,that the only things left is LRT,she kicked me out,3 times now after letting me assume I could stay.
She will not talk to me and she is not the person she was,with me anyway.
Jack,my parents divorced when I was 5,since then as a kid,have been through another.I currently have no good or bad memories of my last 18 yrs,but I know,what it was like and how much better it could be. Oh another reason I think MLC,asked her to see a dr,said she had twice.
Dr said it was for something else,noticed her attitude wasn't like it used to be, and Dr is puzzeled,but until S comes to her she can't do anything.
Two weeks ago S said she'd go to marriage counseling with me.Got there we sit she erupts and told me need to accept this is all my fault and she would call me or tell me herself when I can come back for good.
Another sign,my wife was shocked I would be crushed for being kicked out.She thought I was crazy and being immature and to get over it. She also forgets what she has told me to do.
If you think it is MLC you do not need to convince us.
What do you do for yourself where you aren't constantly thinking about this? Hobbys? Things you like to do? Things you stipped doing that you liked or enjoyed before you were married?
You also said you wrote out a list of failings what are you doing to correct...some of those, the big ones, the failings you don't like in yourself? Stay away from the ones that require your wife's participation, she won't help you right now, she won't care she will correctly think it is a trick. And it will be a trick until you make those changes soley for you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
