Not that my opinion means a hill of beans, but I think you are doing all you can do. I agree with Hope4us. And I don't think you majorly backslided at all. That was just a small step and probably a natural one with as far along as you have come with her. What you were doing seemed to be working so keep doing it like you were. Ugg these things take time and patience.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...