I have provided counselors what I think they needed to help her
Stop. They are trained, they don't need your help, unless they ask for it.
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I am following the Last Resort Technique.
Really? You are? Soooo you are prepared to live your life without her then? LRT ... it isn't a trick, either you are prepared for her to totally leave you and be fine with it, or your prepared tfor her to come back...but man, I do not know anyone who is ready for LRT right off the bat.
You think LRT will work as a trick, so you try it, and when it doesn't work you go back to bugging her and crap...and you think LRT has failed you, when in fact you simple weren't in the right frame of mind for it.
You were a WAH? Is that what you said? Did I read that correctly?
AYK there are no guarentees here, you know that right? MLC is a minefield, it is a long haul with alot of wrecks on the wayside. The important thing is you...improving YOU for when she does come out of it. And until she does come out of it, there is no trick or tactic that you can do to make her come out of it quicker...you can do shi t that keeps her there longer. You don't want that. And while she is in MCL she will push your buttons just to pi ss you off.
But it ain't her man, its the MLC.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
