Where were you in those two years of your (collective) parenting skills going down the crapper?
Of course he isn't attracted to her. It would just be wrong if he was...Buddy I do not know you, your neighbor, or her. Emotional affairs hurt just as much in different ways than physical affairs, but 'He's just a friend' is standard bul lshit and is usually used to cover up the sucker punch.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
