He did shut the door, slammed it as a matter of fact when he flat out told her about things in her mouth and because of that she had no right to any part of him and she was nothing more than a street walker. He went incredibly hard on her. And she deserved every word of it.
BUT if someone said all of that to me, true or not, I would def. not try to talk to them more over think he was interested in reconciliation.
He had to "warm up" just a tad to her. A couple of smiles, weeks after he slammed her cheating ass was a good start to let her think "hey, maybe he doesn't hate me completely" and see where things could go from there.
He has detached. For weeks his only contact with her has been tactical and dealing with the children. He's even had friends and family do the actual exchange on Sundays.
And maybe I remember it better, but she has done things to pursue, just a tad. She sent him the job, AT HER COMPANY, she has started to send silly texts about nothing and for no reason. She's trying to gauge him, that's probably better of a term vs. pursuing.