She has spent more time with a neighbor in 2yrs,than anyone else,kids,me anyone.It's a deep friendship,he's not attractive at all.But he's fun,will listen and take care of things and drink and smoke with her.She is very comfortable with him,more so than she has been with me,for awhile.I could feel it.

He's twice divorced,empty nester,looking for a close bond too.

Does that help everyone now?