I made it clear and she agreed that there will be no dating. W has broken off seeing him (and says it was just a "couple of dates", going to the museum kind of a thing), if not FB contact. Make of this what you will.
You have to live with it. Just be very aware of what's going on.
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She has agreed to counciling for "closure", not for the goal of working on the M. I'm not sure where to come down on that right now.
I got the exact, same line from my W. And she's still here. YOU don't have to make ANY decisions. This is HER party. She will have to make that call. And LET her. The pressure on her is a good thing.
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Before I left this morning, I sat down next to her briefly and said "have a good day." She put her head on my shoulder for a moment, said "I miss you." And I said..... "See you tonight" and got up and left.
Good man. This was good.
Right now, it's time for tough love on your part. Just imagine you have a spoiled teenager who wants something you know is not in her best interest. You can either give in, and spoil her. Or, show some tough love, and let her find the right path.
You can do this Bill. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
