Mish, I agree with the girls, your friends may surprise you. Give them some credit. And seriously, friends should be able to lift some weight for us as well. If not, are they friends?
I dont care if you think I am naive, I think you need to train yourself mentally to ger rid off the victim mentality. It made me so unhappy and the last few years, changing that attitude made a big difference for me. Buy the secret. It helped me. Simplistic but it worked. xxxx K