I forgot to mention my thoughts on MLC. There is differences between MLC and WAW syndrome. The tricky part is noting the differences in your WAS. This is made harder because so many MLC'ers show the signs of a WAS....the reason for this is that being a WAS is usually included in somebody going through MLC. Confused yet? It is confusing and a lot of people go right to the MLC conclusion because of the similarities without careful study and of course the opposite is also true. For me the biggest difference between the two is the time frame of how things will progress. In my opinion, walk away spouses respond to DB tactics faster. Were as a spouse in MLC needs to make the steps through their crisis regardless of what the LBS does or time frame. These steps are critical in their journey and can't be skipped or the WAS will just return to the MLC fog again. The hard part for an LBS of an MLC'er is that the steps take time....a lot of time.
