Hey AYK, sorry that your here and about your sitch. I see signs of MLC in your post, having been looking at my sitch and seeing the same things.

I'd suggest going here, and if you can, buy the ebook she has written, written by a Women who went through it, but written for the men trying to cope.

http://www.pathpartners.com/

Here is the book she wrote, I believe it's a must have for MLC coping husbands..

http://www.surviveyourwifesmidlifecrisis.com/

You will find a lot of that book steps tell you to do exactly what the people and DB will tell you to do, and what you have already started to do.


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."