In terms of the "blueprint".....he asked me for space and time. He went on to say if I can't give him the time to figure somethings out, then he would understand and that would be one less thing he'd have to work out as the decision would be made for him.
Did you post this ?
Do you remember this ?
Like I have said, this is HIS path.
Don't stand in the middle blocking HIS walk.
Whether or not it IS what he wants, until HE recends the filing, it is his choice.