I completely and utterly disagree with you. And maybe I didn't explain this very well. Looking back, I don't think I did.
I WAS in a position to give him all the time he needed. I was (still would be) fine doing stuff for me, with friends, exercising, lots of things with him (as we were dating, again his words) and S, working etc.
THEN HE FILED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He filed back in July, when things "could be on the mend", according to him, on the mend, his words. It turns out the week he told me he wanted to work on things, the week previous to that he filed, but made NO mention of filing.
I guess I wasn't clear here....I have to answer the filing. I have no choice UNLESS he removes the filing. Which he has also mentioned doing.
He removes the filing, we can go back to his time frame, not Stronger's. But because HE FILED, Iliterally have a time line put upon me (legally) to figure things out. I do not have the luxury to just let it all go and not answer.
Does that clear it up for you that I now have to ask him these questions or not, but then answer the divorce filing completely on my own? And keep in mind, I'm dealing with a guy who's answer to why did you file is I don't know. In that same conversation I said "I thought we were dating....???" He said "We are." But he filed.
