If he 100% wanted out he would 100% be out. Standard WAH. Only an evil bastradt does this confusion BS intentionally. Ergo if your husband isn't an evil bastardt then...MLC.
Lying...yes....why would they lie? Lying is bad...it causes more problems then it is worth...and yet they do it...all the time.
Look if you're going to get hung up on the lies, then you're going to hang yourself. Realize he will lie. Not too many peopl eout there are willing to tell the truth if it makes them look badly. Lying is a childs game, and your husband if he is in MLC has the ability of a 4 year when it comes to planning for the future.
He will lie to protect whatever remians of of people opinions of him.
Does he lie to you? Are you breathing air?
You want to make him feel worse...scold him for it. Not generally a good idea.
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I thought maybe if I cleared up things on my end, it could help him shake out some cob-webs.
Fine, it is done and over no reason to lay this all out again, he got the message now leave it alone.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
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