K - The bottomline is you need to LET GO!!!

Stop worrying about what she is doing. It is not healthy.

God has a plan for all of us and this might be his plan for her.

Let Go! and FOCUS on YOU NOT HER.

Period! That is ALL anyone is saying. FOCUS on YOU!!!

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change
;

courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will

That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.