Excuse me for asking, but I dont get the whole judging thing. Is judging the same as having an opinion about what another is doing? Or is judging in Kevin's case only something god can do?

I think he is ok praying and wanting his wife to find a moral path in life, but he needs to find a balance so as to not obsess about it.

Kevin - I never thought in my life that I would ever need to see a counselor, but I ended up seeing one who helped me quite a bit.