Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

So, events that sent the frnzy in motion:

1-my bank sux, no questions about it.

2-as I pull up to "XW's house" to pick up boys Friday, OM has his grubby head stuffed under the hood of a car we received as from her father "get it started it's yours". I spent 4 years working the thing over and the rest of the years waiting for her to finish her end (the interior) of whcich she never did.

3-XW makes it a point to try and piss me off with a b/s attitude, then make a comment about the car. All I could say was 'that's fine, it'll end up like the rest, dead covered in dust sitting on the street'.

4-At dinner S11 begins to complain about a incodent with OM in which hurt him physically. I verify several times with S11, were you playing and it got out of hand? He said no. So, silly me jumps on the phone, hashes out the event with XW, of course ends with getting no-where and that OM needs to keep his damn hands off the kids.

From there Xw tries to call back twice for more, I reject, hence her and OM do a drive by and give us all retarted looks. Both S's stated how childish and disrespectful that was on there own.

5-S11 says to keep an eye on XW and the downstate move: "she's up to something, and you're not going to like it".

6-The fact that both boys DID NOT want to return to her Sunday night. They were so conent with each other for once. They sat in the same room for hours Saturday and did not get on each other's nerves but once. Clearly, they needed space and security. Kind of bites, took away from our time, but, they were happy, and that's all that matters.

7-The what ever the heck happened Sunday night. It was so bad I don't even remember the details of what happened. S11 made some kind of comment reminding, that's it reminding XW that he NEEDED a physical by the end of the day Monday or he was getting kicked out of school. At the point, all hell broke lose and next thing I knew I was consoling S12 (and S11 for bits at a time) for that erie 1 & 1/2 hours that life will get better, things will improve. And that his father loves him (them), and suredly their mother as well loves them.

From that point, I only remember it took me 12 minutes of the normal half an hour it does for me to drive home. And I barely remember any of it. I sat outside with my cousin and cried it all out after being so strong for them, but still only remmeber bits and peices of it.

Heck, I barely remember half of what I had posted on here yesterday morning. So not good. What was it someone said recently, it's like a Satruday hangover on Monday morning. Completely crazy.


Speaking of Saturday's, that was our respite of the weekend, the kids had a blast at the festival. We went on rides, then the band, S11 kept going on more rides, S12 REALLY enjoyed the show once he got into the music, and some lady kept giving my cousin and I free jello shots. We took the train, so there was plenty of time to have fun and rock out and it was all safe. Nice way to say goodbye to summer.