BTW, have any of you tried divorce support groups? I found this website recently: http://www.divorcecare.com/
I attended a divorce care group for several months and found it helpful. The people there, like those on the boards, become supportive friends.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.