I think it is great that your daughter is so caring about everyone. It is unfortunate that your son's real dad has not cleaned himself up after all these years to be the father he should be when your son needs a father the most in his life. I don't know how much your current H feels towards your son since it is not his own blood. That cannot be easy for a young man growing into a harsh world. He really needs guidance and a strong father figure.

When your daughter started taking it out on you, just know that it is not you she is angry at. It is her father. She is hurt and you are the one there that she can express her feelings to. Take it in stride. Just reasure her that you love her and will always be there for her no matter what.

You said you are GALing. What things are you doing to GAL?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...