Unfortunately there isn't much in the DBing books that address my specific situation so I'm kind of winging it a bit.
Yep you are unique just like everybody else.
If it works keep it. If it doesn't work scratch it off the list and try something different.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
