Being "right" is the straight line out of your M, IMO.

But the focus right now needs to be on you and your kids. Someone needs to be the "parent" and it sounds like you are it right now. Of course everyone has different parenting styles, but kids need structure and love and if suddenly no one seems to be providing that, recipie for disaster.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox