Thanks. She almost seemed mad at me last night when I told her that I'm biding my time and working on me and not approaching H to talk about the R or find out what he wants. She thinks I'm setting myself up for me and my D15 to be hurt worse if I don't go ahead and rip the band-aid off, so to speak.

Speaking of talking about the R, it has been a month since I've mentioned it. H has not mentioned it at all. Between us, it seems like everything is as it was before the depression, before the OW entered the picture. How long do I wait to bring up issues so we can work on it?

I'm working on GAL, but between work and home responsibilities, it's hard and I'm not sure I'm making much progress in that area. I know I need to be patient, but I feel like I'm just spinning my wheels here.


2009 info:
Me: 35
H: 37
M: 16/T: 18
D: 15
EA: 5-11-09 to 8-09

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1832210#Post1832210