Oh i didn't ask him what she is saying.He told me that part of her was wanting a divorce and part of her wasn't and to focus on myself.Dealing with a husband wife counseling team, i wanted his wife to know how I felt and what i thought was going on and I didn't leave anything out about myself,good or bad, I didn't leave anything out about my wife either.
I did pass somethings on to the counselors, while i have been gone, my teenage daughter has pulled some things and she always has.Then after reading posts last night, I decided to quit trying to help.