Thanks for the advice, i cancelled my visit with my counselor and faxed a letter to her counselor, that I'm just going to sit back and watch how she handles kids and stuff, there has been some stuff going on, bad stuff and as a parent i want to protect them.
But my daughter wants her mom, because she has been bowling over her for years.Anything I do this week is only going to be undone.I was thinking of just doing a 180 with my teen and letting her get away with some stuff.She sees me as the strict one or do I keep asking for respect and I'm reading books and I know whats' right.Deciding if I should be happy vs right,for now