NC ~ Yes you are right.. but what doesn't make sense is that he would help out a stranger before he'd EVER help me. There was a woman driving with a hole in her tire the other day while we were together, He jumped at the opportunity to help her out... It just doesn't make sense.
He has been home ALOT this summer, but has not dived in to help me at all with house stuff and or kids stuff for that matter, only to play with them. Which im not saying is bad, but you would think that since he has been home so much he would lend a hand, seeing how is my work load hasn't changed.
Nope.
Just doing little things like picking up after the kids a little bit, or cooking dinner one night or giving them baths out of the blue would mean LOADS to me, it would show me that he does care about the things I do, but he just doesn't do that. Why is it so hard to explain. I have told him a little goes a long way, but he couldn't be bothered.
If something were to happen to me tomorrow would just mean it would be a total inconvience to him, hell who would pick up after everybody... that is the way I feel and have felt for a long time, and its just getting worse.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
