Wdid, I'm going to cut way back on emails. I was just emailing about the kids, but I will just start doing essential ones re: schedule or illness, etc. I agree about the schedule. He was having Wed. and every other weekend and that was fine.
His new idea is that less switching/picking up the kids if we just split up the week, with him now requesting half. This is a guy that 12-18 months ago had the kids for no overnights. Then one a week, and we just started the Wed-every other weekend a few months ago. I like the idea of less back and forth, but he makes it so obvious, they start out Tues. mornings with him, I'm going to have the kids for afternoon and evening activities and then I'm going to drop them off at his place. Doesn't make sense.
I do feel bad my L's email got into D9's homework folder. I don't know how it happened, but I certainly didn't intend for that to happen. I don't want D9 or X reading my personal emails! I would never involve the kids in stuff like that! Do you really think he thinks I'm some twisted person that would do that?? I guess it doesn't matter and I have to let it go.
I sent him emails last night explaining the email in D9's folder was an accident last night, and that I will have the kids Tuesday night as we have always done in the past, and as I've told him repeatedly I wouldn't agree to. I told him if he has a problem with that, to contact his L. I suspect he has, he hasn't emailed any further emails today. I'll go to pickup the kids today in an hour or so, and I hope there is no drama. I'm scared he'll show up and refuse to let me have the kids or something. Do you you think that's crazy?
Kat, I keep hoping he'll get it together. I pray for a miracle for him b/c that's what it would take I think. I do believe in them, but I'm getting less hopeful as time goes on and he seems to get worse....
