I'm forcing the issue. Fed up with H thinking it's ok to say our M is over and then doing nothing about it. It's cruel and I feel that he's taking advantage of me being nice.
I texted him asking if he's spoken to a lawyer and if he'd like to meet either this week or next to discuss things first. No reply and it's been several hours.
While he shows some improvement in his parenting skills, he is still far from growing up. Can't imagine him giving up his partying lifestyle for a domestic one.