please i need help i need to know what i should do now...
it has been 2 months since my husband and i have been having problems and he told me he does not love me anymore.
it has been 1 1/2 month since he left our home.
im 26 years old and my husband is 27 we have been together for 10 yrs and have been married for 4 1/2 yrs. we have a beutiful baby boy who is 2 1/2. we are both devoted and great parents and thats our #1 priority in life.
this is not the first time that im going thru this extactly over a year ago my husband left me for 2 mths aswell because he did'nt love me... this time is very different he says he does not love me and wants to get a divorce. a month ago he told me he wants out and is completely done and wants a DIVORCE...he got out of our cell phone company and got a new phone with his mom he wants to get a new bank account...when i get a job (i was laid off and im currently looking for a job).
i have done everything wrong i have cried like crazy infornt of him and he doesnt care, pleaded him to come home asked him to try to work things out...basically all the wrongs moves...
in my heart i feel that i shouldnt give up at all, i have so much faith in us and our family and i have left my marriage in Gods hands. i believe in our marriage regarless of what he says maybe im in denial and i should move on but i cant...i read michelle book and i of course i have done all the wrongs moves.
i know that i have to change and i want to stick to it i just honestly want to talk about our son and our bills and just leave the subject about us alone.
he lives with his mom and i had to move out or rental home bec. their were too many memories and we were spending to much for just my son n i so i found somehting smaller and cheaper. i still have most of his clothes and i know i should give it back to him but i cant im afraid its another move of us falling apart. maybe i should start my giving it back to show that i dont' care.
we both are in opposite ends and hoping to meet in the middle he wants divorce i want us to get back. so he is not rushing on the divorce bec. he says he wants to do things the right way and most important for us to agree on everything so he is giving me time to get adjusted to that fact that its over and he never coming back and that i will accept the divorce...and im waiting for him to come back home and have a change of heart...but all i have done is pused him awaaaaaaaaaaaay. i need to know what i should do....PLEASE HELP ME...I NEED ADVISE.
i believe in our marriage i know him better that this we were doing good not perfect but i knew that he loved me...i cant accept that his feelings just vanish from one day to another.
he tells me that he feels nothing for me and he has not missed me at all and all he wants to do is move forward and be a great father and try to get along with me
