..and there is no reason for you to know. The way back to you is?

To be MORE attractive than the other guy...the OM. That does NOT mean wearing Armani Exchange clothing and getting an earring. It's the stuff Coach is referring to:
-responding to tests....DECISIVENESS
-responding to tests....LISTENING: a question is a statement and a statement is a question
-resonding to tests....stay strong calm and collected when she is not.

A long time ago, in my early DB days, my coach said one thing which applies to ALL OF US no matter WHAT stage we are in: "continue to be the strong loving stable father and husband that you are and always were."

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;