Originally Posted By: Coach
TEST - Is he decisive, confident, in control of his emotions, will he give a direct answer (not pass-agg), does he have a opinion, and will he lead?

If that is the case then I failed.

I have been on the path of staying out of anything or any decisions that she makes like this because she needs to be responsible for her path. I have received a lot of guidance in this direction. Am I off track?

As for the her intent, I've tried to stay away from mind reading. She clearly showed signs of mixed emotions and indecisiveness. Maybe OM invited her to do something and she jumped on the chance to send kids away then felt guilty. Maybe she broke it off with him or vice versa and she needed to be with other friends to get through it. Maybe her financial situation or her ability to feel in control of her life or her house was getting the better of her. No way for me to know.

The way she went back and forth made it seem like there was pressure on her from somewhere. She was crying at one point. It tears me up inside when I see her hurting. frown

Last edited by RedSoxFan; 09/15/09 02:29 PM.

AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
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