There are things in our marriage I HAVE to fix if I want it to work...Trust is HUGE! Taking him off the pedastool is another one. Stop doing things for him. This is not about me. It is but then again I did not make this decision, I am taking a hard look at myself and thinking what can I do differently whether he is in my life or not to be a good role model for my children. He is very stubborn and I think it is unfair to me and my children that he is unwilling to change his mind even though things may change just because he told his sister that he was done...How immature. Really..or how immature to put your children through that. I dont get it. I really do NOT. Sunday was def. effort on his part..but I am not sure why...He was in an awful mood from Wed-Sat...do I take that as a sign that if there is OW then maybe things are not so great???
