So what you are saying is I have to make 100% of the changes? I am ready for that. I can do it.

As for OW, I really think that if there was OW he would be spending time with her..he was really mean to me until Sunday.

I am def. confused but it seems that these problems are going to follow him where ever he goes.

Do you consider talking about bills pursuing H btw? He NEVER asks about the bills anymore. Doesn't care about them at ALL!