It "feels" to me like she wants a clubhouse and a sugar daddy to pay for her playing with her GF all day.
Well, that's not gonna happen.
Get busy. Deal with your anger - let it out, awBut she has to figure that out on her own.ay from her and the family. DON'T suppress it. It WILL come back up. This is where LOTS of exercise helped me, and still does. Couple it with doing something for yourself.
Then once you get it out, you can get back in the game.
