I may have taken some bait. I stayed calm and thought I was just setting my boundary that I wasn't going to get into a me against you thing. You may be right though. At least it was limited. Very frustrating, but limited.
I'm at a very frustrated spot in general with it all right now. Considering how I have been feeling about things this week, I am happy with myself for not blowing up. I realy feel like I've just 'had it' right now.
I am sure you're right in that she does see me as the one thing in between her and her "utopian life." I don't think that she thinks about it though. It all seems to be how she "feels."
It "feels" to me like she wants a clubhouse and a sugar daddy to pay for her playing with her GF all day.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.