My H said he wants a D, I'm devastated!

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chel
This is my experience with MLCer xh and D
this is my opinion
please you will have to read this and then make your own choices:

The mlcer does not want Wife to get an attorney ot to fight back in any way
they want to be in control and want to think we will be waiting forever as they explore their new R with OW
My xh kept everything a secreat, secret credit cards, gaMBLING. OW
they cant be trusted.
when my xh saw I retained a L far superior in intelligence and power to his , he freaked out
thats when the problems with us began..he took it out on the kids
they dont like boundries they are teens
I say keep the attorney and let H spin
he is leaving either way
this will not stop him if he wants to try to Reconcile
this is a legal business deal and 2 L are needed one to protect Your and one to protect him
I say get everything written as you want it and let him go
He is threatening you because he wants everythjing to go his way
but in reality everything will not go his way and he will destruct more and more
he will take you down with him if you let him
save yourself
peace