Sooo, one of our common friends called to RSVP about my son's party on the 26th and she called stbxH. She had separated for 6-8 months with her H, rented apt, went to lawyers and now they are back together. stbxH had lied to them as well about OW. So she asks what is going on and he says he is in middle of a hurricane inside, he is really in a mess and doesnt want to talk to anybody, need to figure this out on his own. So she tells him he is just another jerk who fell for a blonde (sorry ladies) and now is surprised how the heck he ruined his life like this... He doesnt reply so she tells him "our love cant die like that and that I am his partner in life and love of his life". And he says "yes she is, but I will never talk to you again if you tell her that now". So, she calls and tells me. LOL
I think OW is pushing hard and he doenst know left from right. And I will keep pushing for the divorce. But I am thinking I should send her a teaser something like "tyhank you for your suggestion to go to the Maldives, we actually decided we will go". Because when he said he wanted back, she sent a nusty email to him suggesting "honey moon places to revive our love..."