Originally Posted By: Kittyfish
Right- and here's my 2 x 4.

If you two are splitting custody you have to coparent with her. Period. It's not a choice to just say "Keep seeing OM and I won't coparent with you".

Kittyfish,

I guess there are many ways to co-parent. From the point where I would just send the kids out to her when she pulls up to he driveway (without seeing her) to the other extreme of being best friends forever.

I know she wants us to be friends, regardless of which way this heads. I've told her that if it heads down the path of divorce, I will not be friends with her. If she proceeds with a divorce "disrespectfully", I will not be friends with her.

Thanks for stopping by and checking in on me. This is a very tough decision on how to "behave" at this point in the situation

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13