thanks BR yeah from what I see OM is done now. I think like many WAS she still talks to OM but its much more limited now.
she contacted me alot yesterday and asked a few times about the plans (she seems very excited)
she suggested I take her on my bike (Im not so sure she will be up for that long of a ride each way on it but we will see.) she has fallen asleep on it a few times so i guess its more comfortable than i would think, one of my friends says it good she feels that comfortable around me and is positive this is a step forward.
as much as i want the R talk I think I will pass on it this time. I dont want to have the day turn uncomfortable for both of us. maybe just building on new memories will do more for us right now