Rabbit, I don't know that I would say that you may not be around until later ... just let him come along and find you not there (nothing to stop you spying from behind the bushes and then make your grand entrance)!!

The bank situation is a tough one for me as I am in a similar boat this evening - and I have just found out that H cleaned out my private account too, in June, when I was back in the UK. To say that I am furious is an understatement but I had not even checked that account until I went to transfer some funds to the joint, this evening.

Seems like we both need money talks with our WAHs.


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09