I DBed myself to death...to make me feel better about myself when I found about my XH PA. He moved out and in with his OW but that lasted only 6 mos. But the damage was done. I too thought it was me, but found out and I said it all along that the man was in MLC which he was. Now he has come out of that cloud and is starting to have a R with his children again. Infact we are just communicating now to be friends again. We have 3 C and 4 GC now. So somewhere down the line I am going to meet up with him in a family function. Good luck hon...its a tough road..I know. Thank you for your comments and I will read the SSM.
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H-43 W-52 M-6/21/90 LU-NIL-7/03 M/OUT- 7/03 Found out @ OW-7/03 (was involved before the move out) D- 6/23/05 (married 15 yrs- together 17 yrs)