Thank you so much for you responses. Broken Trust..I feel for you. MY XH too had a PA which ended our M.So I certainly feel for you.
[ Why the immediate change upon moving? What's different about where you live now? Did you move away from family? Did you move for work? Why did you move? How it this tied to the onset of diminished interest in sex? ]
gary..alittle on my living arrangements. We met each other yrs ago and both where going thru a D. We dated for awhile and became partners, as neither of us wanted to marry again. We took what settlement monies and savings we had invested in a house. I had always wanted to come down south and was going either way. My SO wanted to go too. I moved because of back pain, and Yes we left family up north. He wanted to retire from a company that was changing drastically. Our kids where grown and finally on there own. Sometimes subconsciencely I think he misses his C and GC but doesnt want to go back. I did suggest it, as mine are up north too. I know he is very dissatisfied that I make more $ than he does and have been the main supporter to the household for the last 3.5 yrs. I never threw that up to him...money is money I dont care who puts it in the bank...or who uses it..thats whats it there for..we cant take it with us is my motto....
so anyway thats my history...I do not know why this has happened..Im thinking its depression and he wont say it.
Anything good in life is worth waiting for! Take care of you!
H-43 W-52 M-6/21/90 LU-NIL-7/03 M/OUT- 7/03 Found out @ OW-7/03 (was involved before the move out) D- 6/23/05 (married 15 yrs- together 17 yrs)
