I've no idea how I'm going to pay significant upcoming expenses because now I have to basically give my W whatever cash I can muster to help pay off her debt associated with courses she is taking to launch a new part time career. This because there was no interim agreement in place previously.
Is this a debt in your name? Why would she not be responsibile for it?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
