Hey Julia, So I called my xh to see if dinner & drinks were still on. He said yes, but only for a couple of hours. Which was expected & ok. I asked him why he never tried calling me. He said cuz maybe I didn't want to talk to him. I said, well why would you expect me to call you & when you been avoiding me for the past 2 years? He got this sad guilty look on his face. We chatted some, he seemed a bit more open & even asked how I was doing & such. The evening seemed to go in warp speed. Obliviously, he is very worried & nervous about his life & not having a job. He hasn't talked to his BMF in a month or so. Wow, he even tried calling him, no return call. What kind of a BF, is that?!?

All in all it went ok. It seems he wants to come over on Wednesday eve as well & will give me a call at work. OMG - 2 times in 1 week!!!


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)