Oops somehow my reply did not appear. Oz, yeah I would say that is a pretty normal part of the process and would be for some time.

Always felt that detachment could be a very thin line and a double edged sword at times.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.