I know how you feel. But from what you told me, I don't think it is the time for that. If she is angry, she is not looking to be forgiven. It sounds like she is still manic. Until she is out of that phase, I think you would be best to sit on your hands as hard as it may sound. I am by no means an expert; my W walked out on me too. I am just letting you know my opinion. I also think your #1 priority should be to get her to a therapist. It will be nearly impossible to reconcile unless she is stable.
