Here's an example. If I were to treat H as the slimeball I think he is (right now), I would ask for separate time with the kids on S6's birthday and I would not have a party together with H.
W did party with me for D14 last month. I don't know how she felt about it. She may have been glad that I was there, she may have felt happy for D14 that I was there or she may have been vomiting in her mouth. I do know that I have huge respect for her for inviting me and I know that D14 will look back 20 years from now and see what she did and respect it too.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09