Thanks ladies, the talk with friend went okay. She and her H are in couples therapy and individual counseling. She is recreating who she is after living in an abusive R with a manic depressive. She sounds like she's on the right trail.
On another note, it's a long story, but H and I traded cell phones today. We should both end up saving some money each month but still on our separate plans. One small step for coworking on financials...
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
