Tristan you aren't a control freak, so don't worry about the label. If you were really in control of everything, your wife would be at home and you would have the greatest relationship you could possibly have with her - currently she's not at home, I would say that settles any arguments about the control issue.

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i love this!

me 30
WAW 30
M 8 yrs
T 9.5 yrs

3 cats 9,6,6


W left 5/31/09
W stopped most contact 06/26/09
W filed 7/22/09
(haven't been served)