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O,

I will continue to keep you (and MANY others here) in my prayers. I wish you the best of luck.

Don't stop working on yourself.


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I am both happy and sad to be loosing you as a resource on this forum. Best of luck to you and your wife.


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Oh! How wonderful! Wishing you and your wife a wonderful new marriage together!

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The key...is to get your spouse there. When..and if... you can...I have heard that Retrouvaille CAN save marriages.

Go forward and enjoy. You are in the 5% group here. Congrats.

FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
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O,

Wishing you the best. We hope that you do consider continue posting here or at least describe the R experience that made it so great.

Take care.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Orich,

Congratulations! My Retro is in 32 days. Your success is a source of inspiration for me going forward.

God Bless,
LFH


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Now the hard work starts.

Good luck!

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I add my heartfelt best wishes.

If you get to see this message Orich, please stay strong through the next few months - this is also for others going for future weekends. Much like you, Retrouvaille was a near miracle that helped give me and my W a chance to save our M. However, as the facilitators are quick to remind, you often leave the weekend on a high, and can come crashing down amidst reality in the next few weeks, sometimes as quickly as the next day (as it did for me).

Remember, it gave you hope and new life, there will continue to be ups and downs but stay the course and hold onto the new strength and purpose you have found.


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Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
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Kids: D10, S5
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Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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I am happy for you and your wife, Orich. Continue the work at home and at the Post sessions. I always had confidence that you would have a good result.

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