Yes, there *is* new respect there. He is acting with integrity. It may seem counter-intuitive but in ending his R with OW (which I am virtually certain he has done) before officially re-committing to marriage with me, he is displaying honor. And in particular, he is being cleaner about transitioning between relationships when he hasn't in the past. In about the only talk we ever had about OW1 lo these 2 years ago, he wondered to me if maybe there was something wrong with him that he couldn't end a relationship with one woman unless he was already involved in another relationship. Granted, there's not a lot of history there. I was only ever his 2nd girlfriend.
At any rate, I respect his position.
Edit: I'm onl quiet because I'm sick.
Last edited by Dia; 09/15/0902:04 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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